It’s been 15 years since her death and we’ve never seen or touched anything from the “crime scene” until now. On my way to the airport we made a stop and within an hour began slowly unwrapping brown paper bags. Bags labeled by number and case. So sad my mom was a case… Much of the items are still there but these few we opened and were able to bring home.
Her purse was secure with all of its original belonging’s; candy, gum, business cards, address book, key’s and more. My sister picked up the lipstick first and I said “wait! Let me guess… it’s sugared bronze” She was so surprised I knew. It was just one of so many things I knew about my mom. I think she’s worn that color since Maybelline made its debut.
And pictures in a plastic wallet insert. Remember when you’d buy a wallet and there was always the picture holder in it? Bless her heart.. In 2001 we didn’t have cell phones. That was a luxury expense that we didn’t see important at the time. My sweet sister, a newborn photo of Madi, and my dreadful homecoming picture… yikes.
But this… her driver license from the 80’s. She was so beautiful. And a minimalist in every way; her wardrobe, make-up, and jewelry were simple. These items have been frozen in time but not anymore.
I strangely contemplated putting on her lipstick and wearing her blush then looking at myself in the mirror. I wouldn’t do that, it is strange. But I will keep these items forever and ever and ever…
Oh Mindy!! My heart, I can’t wait to give you a BIG Huge!! Your words make us feel as though we are sitting in the backseat! I know God has great plans for you, I applaud your bravery and strength. Xo
My sweet Jennifer, I’m so glad you’re in the car with me now as we drive through life. I pray His plans govern my every move and that no path is left uncharted that He has set for me. Isn’t that the goal for us all? Hugs tomorrow at Sip and Shop!! xoxo
I’m heartbroken and filled with happiness all at once. Such treasures you have! Thank you for sharing with all of us! I love you and your families strength as you open up such memories.
Opening memories! YEs that is what were doing. Tough but necessary. Thank you for seeing the value in these treasures as we do. oxoxo
My eyes teared up reading this. I knew what we’re doing this week but see these actual items had to stir up so many memories and feelings for you and your sister. Of course, I never knew your mom but I’ve had the pleasure of meeting your sister a few times and I know YOU! You’re an amazing woman, mom, wife and friend and I know your mom is beaming with pride at the human being that she created! I love you!!!!
*”we’re” was supposed to be “you were”
Oh Linda, thank you for your sweet words of love and encouragement. I didn’t know what to expect this weekend and didn’t anticipate seeing evidence but I’m so glad we did. We literally went on our way to the airport and it was surreal. Sad and numbing at the same time. love you too sweet friend.
My heart tightened and tears came to my eyes…. so heart breaking. You two are very courageous and I hope this journey leads you to peace and closure…. maybe forgiveness. We love you ?
Hi T, I don’t know about courageous. I think I’m just being obedient to God’s calling on my life right now. Wether it’s difficult or sad I have to do it. love you
So glad you were able to see these treasures again.
My uncle Tim was murdered 10 years ago and the case went cold. It’s heart wrenching what one terrible event can do to an entire family. Prayers for you and your family for continued peace and healing while you continue to process the last few days. Xoxo
I cannot imagine a missing person case. I’m so grateful we have closure. Thank you for your prayers Meg, same to you and your family. That one day the truth would be revealed and emotions would be set free. xoxo
What a touching step down a very emotion-filled road, I am sure. <3 you Mindy!
Yes Laura, kind of hard to explain the emotions that actually came after. Thank you for your love and support
This must of been so painful going through these things. Funny how you knew the exact color. My gram wore bright red lipstick and when she passed last year I was able to get one of her lipsticks – carry it in my purse every day. ? Makes me happy when I look at it.
Isn’t it special? My grammy wore bright red lipstick everyday too. Must have been popular. xoxo
I feel honored to share in this with you. What a beautiful thing you are doing, so brave and loving.
Oh Cara, thank you!!! Thank you for being a part of this with me. xoxo
??? Mindy, thank God for your obedience and love for your mom! I cried reading this and asked God to just wrap His arms around you & your sister and bless you both with His love & mercy! You both are the epitome of strength & my hat goes off to you both. Know that you both are greatly loved not only by our Father but your family in Christ. My love, thoughts and prayers go out to you both!
Angela, your words and support and some of what sustains us. God gives us amazing people in our lives to fill us up and keep us going when our tank is running low. Thanks for the gas sis! xoxo
Heartfelt love for you and Elisa and the memories of this tragic day comes back like it was yesterday. I believe this will be the final pieces that can give you closure. Your mom watches over both of you and is so proud of the strong independent women you have become.